Just Say No
by Danny Tariman
“We are concerned for what is honorable not only in the sight of the Lord but also in the sight of others.” (2 Cor 8:21)
“Hi Danny, can we meet this Wednesday?”
“Sure! What is the agenda?”
“Will discuss when we meet.”
This was the exchange of text messages between me and my friend of many years.
Over lunch, we updated each other. He did most of the talking. He told me a lot of stories about his growing business.
In the last few minutes, he requested to me go to a bank for a meeting, where his team will see a manager to discuss a project that his company is proposing to do. He asked me to pretend that I am a Software Architect/Business Analyst representing a competing technology company. I was also told to pretend not to know his team.
I was just listening to him discuss the meeting room scenario. He told me that I have no business card to give because I am supposed to be a new hire of this company that I am “representing”. He further asked me to give my mobile phone as contact number of the company I am to represent.
After about 5 minutes briefing of what I am supposed to do, he said “Bro, you have to go now as the meeting is to start at 2:30”.
I told him that it will be difficult for me. But he insisted.
And so we parted ways, with me walking toward the direction of the bank.
While walking, I prayed to the Lord to guide me as I was not at peace: these are all lies and pretensions. I also called my wife. She too was not at peace and felt that this is not pleasing to the Lord and very deceptive to the client.
With a very clear message from the Lord, I texted my friend “I am sorry bro, I can’t do this.”
He quickly called me to once again prod me to do it. But I insisted and asked for understanding. At this point, he did not press me anymore.
Although I needed a project for a job, I felt free and released from the burden of pretension when I said “No!” As the Bible says “Better to be poor and walk in integrity than rich and crooked in one’s ways” (Proverbs 28:6)
I know and believe that the LORD will honor my trust in Him and my obedience to His Word. I know He will answer my prayers and my dreams will come to pass very, very soon!